I've felt weak, like everyone. But my worse weakness is my fear of the future,
fear of what is going to happen... if I found a good job or not, if I found
someone to share my life with or not, If I lose someone I love or not, If I have
difficult children (with a different sexual orientation than normal... my god,
that would be terrible because I wouldn't now how to deal with that) or sick
children (with a deformity or a terminal disease) or not having them at all,
etc. I feel so weak and helpless when I think about all these things, and more
when I see injustice (like how we are destroying our planet with contamination,
I feel weak when I heard the word "extinction" and seeing species
dying everyday thanks to human selfishness, when I see children being abused by
pedophiles on the news, or people dying from starvation, or old people dying
alone after being forgotten by their famillies, when I see all of this I feel
helpless and then I feel weak. I hope that one day I will be strong enough to
help this people and help the nature... and I feel on my way to become a
stronger person by knowing this.
Well what happened to you it's quite sad and a problem in our society, I feel
that there's no problen in being gay or lesbian because you have an oriented
sexuality and live by the choice you made, but when TOO many people start to
become bisexuals out of fashion (which is the most degradating fashion I had
ever seen) it becomes a a society problem because it affects the reproduction
and stability of families that are the base of everything. What could have
happened if this guy you liked instead of being gay (at least he choosed a
sexuality) had being a bisexual instead, then... would you have dated him? If
your answer is yes then you should think about a NO because the first option
becomes a major problem later with sexual diseases and all sort of consequences
(some sexual diseases last a lifetime and had to be controled with medication
for the same leght of time sometimes even twice a day). So I advice you to take
a good look at men's eyes when you meet them because people who are not
heterosexual have a special look about them I call that the "ambiguous
look" it has a certain degree of sexuality and perversion in it (I have to
say that it's perversion in my way of seeing things and from my heterosexual
point of view of course), there's is no innocence in the way they see the world
because the sexuality they lived pass his account in the lack of innocence and
sexual intensity that it shows in their eyes when they grow older, for example
if you see a photo of Freddie Mercury and the look in his eyes you will
understand what I mean and eventually you will recognize that look in the men
you met and see which ones are gays, bisexuals or heterosexuals (I'm a 100% sure
about this because if I see a man with that look I ask my mom or my friends or
whoever is with me and most of the time we all agree in "that look").
The "Deep Love" manga anthology is based on the novel by YOSHI and the
artwork is done by Yoshii Yuu. Deep Love it's a group of deep dramatic love
stories that go straight to the readers hearts, they show you a lot of
situations which you might not like to read or deal with, the stories make you
the judge of the characters lifes while dealing with all the evil that the world
has for each one of them... there is no justice, just the hard reality for this
lonely and good bunch people T^T.
A young prostitute called Ayu has lived a meaningless life until she met a young
boy called Yoshiyuki. They met when an old lady who taught her the meaning of
life passed away, only briefly telling her of her grandson, Yoshiyuki. Knowing
that the old lady wished only to see her grandson but is unable to grant the old
lady her wish, Ayu then thought that she could take care of Yoshiyuki for her.
Ayu and Yoshiyuki, despite his heart problems and her dark past loved each other
to the fullest. However, life wasn't easy for the both of them. Yoshiyuki's
father forbids the relationship and kept them away from each other. But Ayu
sacrificed herself by becoming a prostitute once again to earn money for
Yoshiyuki's operation and to keep her promise to the old woman who changed her
life. Can Yoshiyuki's life be saved? Will Ayu finally be free from all her
burdens? Will their love still remain even after separation?
An orphan and healthy Yoshiyuki founds himself desolated after the lost of Ayu,
and decides to try the life that she used to lead in order to understand why she
did what she did till the end. Yoshiyuki becames a host in a male service club,
he's starts as a host and became the boss of the club in which he works but
there is more in his life than what it seems, he is followed by the ghosts of
the love he shared with Ayu and by the wheels of destiny, the wheels that cross
his path with a young and innocent... Ayu. What will happen to Yoshiyuki? Will
he fall in love again? Can he ever found happiness again?
After her best friend Ayu dies of AIDS, after she's raped and pregnant - this is
Reina's story that begins three years after she gives birth to her daughter
named after her best friend. She loves her daughter more than her own life, but
when Ayu takes a tumble down the stairs, she realizes that she is far too
selfish to be a mother at age 19, and that she also needs money to properly
support her daughter. She leaves Ayu with her own mother, and searches for work
- realizing her only good point is selling her body. What will become of Reina?
Will she ever see her daughter again?
Ok! There's another part of this anthology called "Deep Love: Pao's
Tale" and tells the story of Ayu's dog called Pao T^T it's soo sad that I
won't write the summary here so you better get it in HERE
This manga is quite hard, theres is nothing tender or innocent about the story
because of the sexual contents and personal struggles of each one of the
characters. I highly recommend this reading and you can get this anthology
her:
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layouts but I need to face this problem (I decided to use layouts of other
members to explain my problem so I apologize if this causes you any
problem):
You see... I want to change my userpage skin but I always have problem with that
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Hello again everyone, I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for your answers
and advices to my post. I came to say that my friends fiancee finally gave her
an engagement ring, the guy earns a good deal of money and works a lot... but
he's very stingy, he has a tight hand when it comes to money. My friends mother
it's a nice person, but she's stuck between my friends attitude and her husband
commands, she's worried about my friend and so far she's the only one who has
put my friends fiancee in his place lol.
And talking about my friend, she has a nice character, she's very clever, she
has a lot of kindness and respect for others (not her parents but to other
people she's very respectful), she's always there when you need her (at good and
bad times), she has a great sense of humor and a quiet voice and good manners,
so as you can see... she can be manipulated very easily when she's in
love.
I don't understand love (I had never been in love) but I can see clearly that
"this" guy doesn't love my friend at all. The only times that they go
out it's because he has free tickets or entry to some concert or event (since he
works in that field he knows a lot of people and get a lots of priviledges), so
far they had been going out for 6 months (he proposed in April) and only once
had paid for my friends dinner, he also doesn't try to win the affection of his
future in laws, he goes to their house and read the newspaper and ignore
Denisse's parents lol.
So this far... the picture looks naughty and quite hopeless, I don't wish to see
my friend unhappy but I think that in the end I will, but I will be at her side
just the way I had been in this 10 years of friendship we had shared.
Thanks a lot for your concern and advices, they had helped me to see things in a
different light.
Baaa my friend solved her problems with her fiancee and is engaged again ,
she's coming tomorrow to stay for the night... I'm going to talk to her but I
feel that she is like a deaf person but worse... she doesn't want to hear what
people says, so she is a deaf closed minded person .
I'm getting pissed with her constants quarrelings with her supposed loved one...
if she gets married it's going to be a nightmare.
By the way one of the bridesmaids it's going to be the singer of 8mm and the
bestman it's going to be Sean (the other member of 8mm), it's quite strange... a
wedding full of famous people that knows that that marriage is going to be a
great failure...
Damn! I'm sooo annoyed with my friend, that I want to open her eyes with a
future insight of what is going to happen with her... I just hope that she would
NEVER get pregnant in that useless marriage, my god... tghe fiancee looks like a
brunette Michael Jackson
(ewww).
Men think that virginity it's very important because they like to be the first
at everything, they're very competitive by nature and they feel sort of special
when they're the first man to be sexually with a woman, they feel that they
conquered some land or something of the sort.
Women think that virginity it's important to be given to the right guy and in
love. Some experienced women tend to be quite agressive so men tend to be
divided between the so called inocence and the so called pleasure that
experience can provide.
I think that virginity doesn't matter when you're in love... when you love you
love the person for what it is and you love the road that that person has walked
untill it crossed your own path, but if you are going to lose your inocence then
you ought to do it with a mature person in a mature age (not being a teenager
with another teenager in the back of a car on the side of a road) because
they're are a lot of things in life and diseases that you ignore or don't know
when you're young and whose consequences chase you in your adult sexual life
(like AIDS or other sexual diseases that even cause infertility). So it does
matter when, how, with whom and with the right feelings in you heart and right
thoughs in your head.
In the end in a marriage sex is only a role on a big play with many roles and
acts.
Hello everyone, I'm writing to you people because my best friend it's getting
married next month (October 14 to be more specific) and she's the saddest bride
I had ever seen .
My best friend, Denisse, has a difficult relationship with her parents, they
don't trust her so they tend to be very oppresive with their permissions to her,
when she was annoyed she lied to them and -in return- they scolded her a lot and
so the circle goes on and on. My friend started to get a little difficult, she
arrived late at home, sometimes she didn't arrived at all and never called,
sometimes she said that she went to a place and instead went to another place,
etc. So her parents didn't beleive in her or trust her when she started to grow
up and started to say the truth. She is a good girl with a tender nature, she is
a great friend who is always there when you need a hand or an advice... but
lately she looks so sad and I don't know what to do to help her...
My friend is 24 years old and studies to become a teacher, she's in her last
year and her parents paid her studies so -from time to time- she works part-time
and earn a little bit of money, she cannot leave her house and she struggles to
remain in a good relationship with her parents (especially her dad who is... a
jerk, I dislike him a lot), she has a bunch of special friends (actors,
producers, musicians, etc.) a bohemian factory of people and
started to date one of them, a 34 years old ambiguous music producer, musician
and photographer, her fiancee is a very strange guy, he's very selfish and
stingy, he asked her to marry him after dating for one month and he never gave
her an engagement ring because he -->didn't believe in those things<--
*snort* anyway, he also never pays when they go out, sometimes he borrow money
from my friend and then never return it. I feel that he has bisexual manners (I
hate bisexuals the most)... I don't know how to say this but he speaks softly
and he's almost delicate, he works at night and is a friend of musicians like
Marilyn Mason and 8mm, he lived in San Francisco for 2 years, he had lived with
at least 4 women and dated a lot more, and all of a sudden he decided that my
friend was the love of his life and asked her to marry him...
NOW... my friend it's not a saint but she doesn't have HIS experience in life,
HE knows what he wants and my friend doesn't, she doesn't want to get married
but she has great sex with him so... I think that she has a a sex infatuation
more than a love commitment with him, she has a terrible relationship with her
parents, feels lonely, scared and trapped and she sees marriage as some sort of
escape... I know this because I'm her only and best friend and I don't know what
to do, she started to make the arrangements for her wedding and she was
discouraged, stressed, annoyed and sad (she didn't even want to buy her wedding
dress... or anything for that matter). She called yesterday crying saying that
she will come and spend the night at my house because she didn't want to go home
(she has broken up with her fiance), and she asked me to call to her parents
which I did and then called two hours later saying that she was staying at her
fiance (still crying) because it was late and he didn't want her to leave his
house because it was dangerous , in
the end I told her that she should call her parents but knowing her I decided to
call them myself just in case, not only she didn't call them... she lied to them
again and never told them where she was so in the end I was the messenger
between my friend and her parents.
Right know I don't even know what to do or what to say to her and that's why I'm
here asking for your advice...
If you had a friend in this situation... what would you tell to her?
I like Fushigi Yuugi Genbu Kaiden and Imadoki. On the other hand I HATE Zettai
Kareshi (or handsome boyfriend) because I can't imagine a human being making
love to an android, and less loving one (it'a like falling in love with your
computer lol) that's so boring, so FG it's the best ever ^^.
I like an old one and it's Mikami from GS Mikami she was sooo cool, with a great
body, great powers, great brains, very feminine and quite sexy, she could drive
a man insane and seduce him and at the same time fight ghost and demons like it
was nothing lol.
From which author you would and wouldn't like to
be a character?
I don't if this thread exists already in these Forum ^_^ but I thought about
this after reading some Danielle Steel's books and the characters in her books
are:
And since the prospect of facing any of these realities doesn't attract me that
much, I've decided that I wouldn't like to be a character on her books
lol.
I also wouldn't like to be character of Tolkien, Feodor Dostoievski, Patrick
S�¼skind, Franz Kafka,
Dan Brown, Emily
Br�¶nte, Henry James,
Ernest Hemingway, etc.
But, on the contrary, I would love to be a character of Jane Auten, L.M.
Montgomery, Louisa May Alcott, JK Rowling (even if she will evetually kill me
>=0! ), Nora Roberts and Christine Feehan (I want a carpathian for meeee ).
And what about you... from which author you would and wouldn't like to be a
character?
(If you can please respond to this very Fushigi Yuugi poll ).
I would love to go to all of these countries (I will drool myself in Italy
that's for sure <3 lol):
1- Ireland <-- Bishounens <333
2- Italy <-- Bishounens <333
3- Canada.
4- Scotland.
5- Austria <-- more bishounens <3333
6- Sweden <-- more more bishounens lol <33333
7- China.
8- Greece.
9- Japan.
10- France.
Countries with beautiful places to visit, great cultural values, interesting
history, languaje and architecture, etc. I just love the idea of going to any of
those countries.
I play Runescape too ^^ I'm a 72 level player and I enjoy a lot this game while
I'm not near players that use the word "noob" lol I hate that word and
I really enjoyed the time when I was a new player and I had to do the quests
<3.
Mmm most of the people are afraid of losing someone they loved. I had never lost
someone that I love or care about... but it must be terrible and the worse is
that nothing and no one can replace a person, it like a lost part of your soul
that lives and breathes in memories... it makes sad just to think about it
T^T.
OK I don't know if this thread has been done before but I wanted to show a lot of old music videos , and
since most of the users of this place a born after 1990 I know that (because of
their ages) most of them haven't seen some great music videos of the 80's and
even the 70's or the beginning of the 90's , so
I wanted to show them (with all of you) some music videos in this
WURLITZER.
You can share any music video that you think it's great and most of all
interesting (in any languaje but be careful with the contents and most of all
show us your great taste in music and tell us why do you like that music video
in particular).
Do you want to try? Then go to these sites and search for your video and put the
link in here.
There is a lot of websites that share short videos ^_^ so you just need to find
them. In the meantime I will loove to start this Wurlitzer with this
song:
- Breakfast at Tyffany's.
- My fair lady.
- Love in the Afternoon.
- Gone with the wind.
* My favorite recent movies are:
- Far and away.
- Jerry Maguire.
- Almost Famous.
- When Harry met Sally.
- Pretty woman.
- Amelie.
- Sen to Chihiro.
- Howl's moving castle.
- Whutering heights (the last version).
- Jane Eyre (the last version).
- Cinema Paradiso.
- A league of their own.
- You've got mail.
- Sleepless in Seattle.
- Forrest Gump.
Mmmm I thing that the longest song I had ever heard is X Japan "The Art of
Life" (Live), ufff it lasted an eternity , and
also some songs from Classic music.
Well I love the sound of three languages and those are Gaelic (it's by far my
favorite and it's soo sad that theres a lot of irich and scotish people who
doesn't know their own celtic language , I
love everything about this language... how it sounds and how it's writed... it's
unique), Greek and French. I speak spanish, I'm learning chinese and english
right now (how much I would love to speak chinese fluently... maybe someday), I
also think that japanese and korean are quite interesting (I think that all of
them -chinese most of all- have an interesesting history and culture that it's
quite pronunciated in their languages).
Quote by glassreflectionThe only
korean drama i REALLY liked was "my name is kim sam soon." the most
hilarious drama ever...it was witty and it's aim wasn't to make me cry. two
thumbs up!
Quote by mon-kichi... k-drama and
j-drama is better. my fav is 'full house' and 'my name is kim sam soon'...
Quote by Kashino...I was watching some
korean dramas.. Like Full House, Kim Sam Soon, and My Girl ;D
...
These three people watched the best oriental drama I had ever seen lol and that
is "My name is Kim Sam-Soon" this story it's a comedy drama that makes
you laught and cry at the same time, you never get bored and I really mean
it.
I love short dramas (between 9 and 16 episodes) because if it gets too large I
get utterly bored and stopped watching the drama in the end.
I watched all sorts of oriental dramas (taiwanese, japanese and korean) like:
Attic cat, I love Patzzi, Full House, Mars, Hana Yori Dango, Goong, etc. And
they were all good (I hate boring stories and I watched all of these till the
end), but by far "My name is Kim Sam-Soon" is the best (and besides
Daniel Henney works in that drama and I looove that guy lol).
Quote by XerdoI REALLY loved "De
Repente" / "Suddenly", and she also had some other songs in
English, did she not?
I heard her several times. I didn't really know she was sick. It's very sad
news. I wasn't a fan, but this still made me VERY
sad...
Yes T^T they were very sad news and she was so
young, talented and pretty (when I was a 14 I wanted to be as pretty and
feminine as her in the video "Suddenly" (De repente)). For latin
people who liked her music and knew about her fight against breast cancer it was
a very sad lost T.T... I HATE CANCER, I really hate that disease, I haven't lost
anyone that I love by this disease but I know a lot of people who had suffered
the lost of someone that they cared about because they were sick with cancer...
so if you know someone with cancer you must be sad too when a famous singer who
is known as a speaker of cancer foundations... dies of that disease when she
thought that she had overcome her past fight... Soraya didn't win but her
stuggle left a mark in people hearts.
I have some good advices, sleep late one night
and then wake up early the next morning (you might fall asleep while standing
the rest of the day but it works to get your sleeping hours into a normal
schedule... at least it worked for me). Other is to drink a cup of hot milk qith
tea and then get into bed at an early hour and read a boring book for an hour
(it always works). You can watch a boring movie too (that works for me ^^). Also
you can take half of a sleeping pill (or even a complete one) for one night and
then your sleeping hours start to fit normally.
Well that's pretty much all I had made to get
some sleep in my life ^^ ohhhh AND NEVER TAKE A NAP yeah, if you do that you
might never fall asleep at night.
MIAMI - Colombian-American singer Soraya, who won a Latin Grammy for best female
album in 2004 and worked to educate Hispanic women about breast cancer, died
Wednesday after battling the disease. She was 37.
ADVERTISEMENT
She died in a Miami hospital, said Lorena Oriani, a spokeswoman for her record
label, EMI Latin.
She was born in New Jersey to Colombian parents in 1969 and was found to have
breast cancer in 2000.
Her greatest hits were "Solo Por Ti" and "Casi," both
released in 2003 on the album "Soraya." She was well known for
integrating cumbia and flamenco music with her own style of pop-rock.
Besides her Latin Grammy in 2004, she won a Billboard Latin Music Spirit of Hope
award that year. In 2005 she was nominated for a Latin Grammy for female pop
vocal album for "El Otro Lado De Mi."
In a letter posted on her Web site Tuesday in Spanish, she wrote to her fans
about her battle with cancer. She said she was sure her life was
ending.
"I have not lost this battle, because I know the fight was not in
vain," she said. "Instead, it will help end a larger battle, which is
early detection to prevent this terrible disease."
Soraya's mother, grandmother and an aunt died of breast cancer, which encouraged
her to inform Hispanic women about the disease. She joined the Susan G. Komen
Breast Cancer Foundation and traveled all over Latin America to inform women
about early breast cancer detection.
Soraya recorded "Por Ser Quien Soy" ("For Being Who I Am"),
a song that reflects her experience with the disease.
T^T It's soo sad, I liked this singer so much... I thought that she had already
win her battle against cancer but... cancer it's such a terrible disease and a
disease that almost all the time kill the people sick with it, it mask himself
as a recovery only to take you to death with double force and less time that you
could imagine.
I've felt weak, like everyone. But my worse weakness is my fear of the future, fear of what is going to happen... if I found a good job or not, if I found someone to share my life with or not, If I lose someone I love or not, If I have difficult children (with a different sexual orientation than normal... my god, that would be terrible because I wouldn't now how to deal with that) or sick children (with a deformity or a terminal disease) or not having them at all, etc. I feel so weak and helpless when I think about all these things, and more when I see injustice (like how we are destroying our planet with contamination, I feel weak when I heard the word "extinction" and seeing species dying everyday thanks to human selfishness, when I see children being abused by pedophiles on the news, or people dying from starvation, or old people dying alone after being forgotten by their famillies, when I see all of this I feel helpless and then I feel weak. I hope that one day I will be strong enough to help this people and help the nature... and I feel on my way to become a stronger person by knowing this.
Well what happened to you it's quite sad and a problem in our society, I feel that there's no problen in being gay or lesbian because you have an oriented sexuality and live by the choice you made, but when TOO many people start to become bisexuals out of fashion (which is the most degradating fashion I had ever seen) it becomes a a society problem because it affects the reproduction and stability of families that are the base of everything. What could have happened if this guy you liked instead of being gay (at least he choosed a sexuality) had being a bisexual instead, then... would you have dated him? If your answer is yes then you should think about a NO because the first option becomes a major problem later with sexual diseases and all sort of consequences (some sexual diseases last a lifetime and had to be controled with medication for the same leght of time sometimes even twice a day). So I advice you to take a good look at men's eyes when you meet them because people who are not heterosexual have a special look about them I call that the "ambiguous look" it has a certain degree of sexuality and perversion in it (I have to say that it's perversion in my way of seeing things and from my heterosexual point of view of course), there's is no innocence in the way they see the world because the sexuality they lived pass his account in the lack of innocence and sexual intensity that it shows in their eyes when they grow older, for example if you see a photo of Freddie Mercury and the look in his eyes you will understand what I mean and eventually you will recognize that look in the men you met and see which ones are gays, bisexuals or heterosexuals (I'm a 100% sure about this because if I see a man with that look I ask my mom or my friends or whoever is with me and most of the time we all agree in "that look").
The "Deep Love" manga anthology is based on the novel by YOSHI and the artwork is done by Yoshii Yuu. Deep Love it's a group of deep dramatic love stories that go straight to the readers hearts, they show you a lot of situations which you might not like to read or deal with, the stories make you the judge of the characters lifes while dealing with all the evil that the world has for each one of them... there is no justice, just the hard reality for this lonely and good bunch people T^T.
The first part of the anthology is called Arc 1 "Deep Love: Ayu no Monogatari" and here it is a summary:
A young prostitute called Ayu has lived a meaningless life until she met a young boy called Yoshiyuki. They met when an old lady who taught her the meaning of life passed away, only briefly telling her of her grandson, Yoshiyuki. Knowing that the old lady wished only to see her grandson but is unable to grant the old lady her wish, Ayu then thought that she could take care of Yoshiyuki for her. Ayu and Yoshiyuki, despite his heart problems and her dark past loved each other to the fullest. However, life wasn't easy for the both of them. Yoshiyuki's father forbids the relationship and kept them away from each other. But Ayu sacrificed herself by becoming a prostitute once again to earn money for Yoshiyuki's operation and to keep her promise to the old woman who changed her life. Can Yoshiyuki's life be saved? Will Ayu finally be free from all her burdens? Will their love still remain even after separation?
The second part is called Arc 2 "Deep Love: Host" and I will write a small summary:
An orphan and healthy Yoshiyuki founds himself desolated after the lost of Ayu, and decides to try the life that she used to lead in order to understand why she did what she did till the end. Yoshiyuki becames a host in a male service club, he's starts as a host and became the boss of the club in which he works but there is more in his life than what it seems, he is followed by the ghosts of the love he shared with Ayu and by the wheels of destiny, the wheels that cross his path with a young and innocent... Ayu. What will happen to Yoshiyuki? Will he fall in love again? Can he ever found happiness again?
The third part is called Arc 3 "Deep Love: Reina no Unmei" and the summary it's like this:
After her best friend Ayu dies of AIDS, after she's raped and pregnant - this is Reina's story that begins three years after she gives birth to her daughter named after her best friend. She loves her daughter more than her own life, but when Ayu takes a tumble down the stairs, she realizes that she is far too selfish to be a mother at age 19, and that she also needs money to properly support her daughter. She leaves Ayu with her own mother, and searches for work - realizing her only good point is selling her body. What will become of Reina? Will she ever see her daughter again?
Ok! There's another part of this anthology called "Deep Love: Pao's Tale" and tells the story of Ayu's dog called Pao T^T it's soo sad that I won't write the summary here so you better get it in HERE
This manga is quite hard, theres is nothing tender or innocent about the story because of the sexual contents and personal struggles of each one of the characters. I highly recommend this reading and you can get this anthology her:
Deep Love Ayu no Monotagari
For the access to the Sugar Manga downloads you need to become a member ^^ sorry!.
Ok I'm going now.
Bye Bye.
Hello everyone
I'm
here because I need help with my userpage skills, you see I know how to make
layouts but I need to face this problem (I decided to use layouts of other
members to explain my problem so I apologize if this causes you any
problem):
You see... I want to change my userpage skin but I always have problem with that corner and I want to know how to fix this and previous to that I need a template
so... Does anyone in here have a 1280x1024 resolution size Minitokyo template with the navigation bar
marked? I have asked other members but none of them had one so I came
here to the general headquarters 
in search of a solution 
so...
PLEASE HELP ME!
Thanks for your help and advices to my problem.
Elyvania.
Hello again everyone, I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for your answers and advices to my post. I came to say that my friends fiancee finally gave her an engagement ring, the guy earns a good deal of money and works a lot... but he's very stingy, he has a tight hand when it comes to money. My friends mother it's a nice person, but she's stuck between my friends attitude and her husband commands, she's worried about my friend and so far she's the only one who has put my friends fiancee in his place lol.
And talking about my friend, she has a nice character, she's very clever, she has a lot of kindness and respect for others (not her parents but to other people she's very respectful), she's always there when you need her (at good and bad times), she has a great sense of humor and a quiet voice and good manners, so as you can see... she can be manipulated very easily when she's in love.
I don't understand love (I had never been in love) but I can see clearly that "this" guy doesn't love my friend at all. The only times that they go out it's because he has free tickets or entry to some concert or event (since he works in that field he knows a lot of people and get a lots of priviledges), so far they had been going out for 6 months (he proposed in April) and only once had paid for my friends dinner, he also doesn't try to win the affection of his future in laws, he goes to their house and read the newspaper and ignore Denisse's parents lol.
So this far... the picture looks naughty and quite hopeless, I don't wish to see my friend unhappy but I think that in the end I will, but I will be at her side just the way I had been in this 10 years of friendship we had shared.
Thanks a lot for your concern and advices, they had helped me to see things in a different light.
Baaa my friend solved her problems with her fiancee and is engaged again
,
she's coming tomorrow to stay for the night... I'm going to talk to her but I
feel that she is like a deaf person but worse... she doesn't want to hear what
people says, so she is a deaf closed minded person 
.
I'm getting pissed with her constants quarrelings with her supposed loved one... if she gets married it's going to be a nightmare.
By the way one of the bridesmaids it's going to be the singer of 8mm and the bestman it's going to be Sean (the other member of 8mm), it's quite strange... a wedding full of famous people that knows that that marriage is going to be a great failure...
Damn! I'm sooo annoyed with my friend, that I want to open her eyes with a future insight of what is going to happen with her... I just hope that she would NEVER get pregnant in that useless marriage, my god... tghe fiancee looks like a brunette Michael Jackson
(ewww).
Men think that virginity it's very important because they like to be the first at everything, they're very competitive by nature and they feel sort of special when they're the first man to be sexually with a woman, they feel that they conquered some land or something of the sort.
Women think that virginity it's important to be given to the right guy and in love. Some experienced women tend to be quite agressive so men tend to be divided between the so called inocence and the so called pleasure that experience can provide.
I think that virginity doesn't matter when you're in love... when you love you love the person for what it is and you love the road that that person has walked untill it crossed your own path, but if you are going to lose your inocence then you ought to do it with a mature person in a mature age (not being a teenager with another teenager in the back of a car on the side of a road) because they're are a lot of things in life and diseases that you ignore or don't know when you're young and whose consequences chase you in your adult sexual life (like AIDS or other sexual diseases that even cause infertility). So it does matter when, how, with whom and with the right feelings in you heart and right thoughs in your head.
In the end in a marriage sex is only a role on a big play with many roles and acts.
I think that it's fair and that it should be allowed to marry your cousins or anyone fo that matter it there is a true love to support them.
Hello everyone, I'm writing to you people because my best friend it's getting married next month (October 14 to be more specific) and she's the saddest bride I had ever seen
.
My best friend, Denisse, has a difficult relationship with her parents, they don't trust her so they tend to be very oppresive with their permissions to her, when she was annoyed she lied to them and -in return- they scolded her a lot and so the circle goes on and on. My friend started to get a little difficult, she arrived late at home, sometimes she didn't arrived at all and never called, sometimes she said that she went to a place and instead went to another place, etc. So her parents didn't beleive in her or trust her when she started to grow up and started to say the truth. She is a good girl with a tender nature, she is a great friend who is always there when you need a hand or an advice... but lately she looks so sad and I don't know what to do to help her...
My friend is 24 years old and studies to become a teacher, she's in her last year and her parents paid her studies so -from time to time- she works part-time and earn a little bit of money, she cannot leave her house and she struggles to remain in a good relationship with her parents (especially her dad who is... a jerk, I dislike him a lot), she has a bunch of special friends (actors, producers, musicians, etc.) a bohemian factory of people
and
started to date one of them, a 34 years old ambiguous music producer, musician
and photographer, her fiancee is a very strange guy, he's very selfish and
stingy, he asked her to marry him after dating for one month and he never gave
her an engagement ring because he -->didn't believe in those things<--
*snort* anyway, he also never pays when they go out, sometimes he borrow money
from my friend and then never return it. I feel that he has bisexual manners (I
hate bisexuals the most)... I don't know how to say this but he speaks softly
and he's almost delicate, he works at night and is a friend of musicians like
Marilyn Mason and 8mm, he lived in San Francisco for 2 years, he had lived with
at least 4 women and dated a lot more, and all of a sudden he decided that my
friend was the love of his life and asked her to marry him...
NOW... my friend it's not a saint but she doesn't have HIS experience in life, HE knows what he wants and my friend doesn't, she doesn't want to get married but she has great sex with him so... I think that she has a a sex infatuation more than a love commitment with him, she has a terrible relationship with her parents, feels lonely, scared and trapped and she sees marriage as some sort of escape... I know this because I'm her only and best friend and I don't know what to do, she started to make the arrangements for her wedding and she was discouraged, stressed, annoyed and sad (she didn't even want to buy her wedding dress... or anything for that matter). She called yesterday crying saying that she will come and spend the night at my house because she didn't want to go home (she has broken up with her fiance), and she asked me to call to her parents which I did and then called two hours later saying that she was staying at her fiance (still crying) because it was late and he didn't want her to leave his house because it was dangerous
, in
the end I told her that she should call her parents but knowing her I decided to
call them myself just in case, not only she didn't call them... she lied to them
again and never told them where she was so in the end I was the messenger
between my friend and her parents.
Right know I don't even know what to do or what to say to her and that's why I'm here asking for your advice...
If you had a friend in this situation... what would you tell to her?
Thanks for your answers and advices.
I like Fushigi Yuugi Genbu Kaiden and Imadoki. On the other hand I HATE Zettai Kareshi (or handsome boyfriend) because I can't imagine a human being making love to an android, and less loving one (it'a like falling in love with your computer lol) that's so boring, so FG it's the best ever ^^.
I like an old one and it's Mikami from GS Mikami she was sooo cool, with a great body, great powers, great brains, very feminine and quite sexy, she could drive a man insane and seduce him and at the same time fight ghost and demons like it was nothing
lol.
From which author you would and wouldn't like to be a character?
I don't if this thread exists already in these Forum ^_^ but I thought about this after reading some Danielle Steel's books and the characters in her books are:
- Killed.
- Raped.
- Sterile.
- Orphans.
- Betrayed, etc.
And since the prospect of facing any of these realities doesn't attract me that much, I've decided that I wouldn't like to be a character on her books lol.
I also wouldn't like to be character of Tolkien, Feodor Dostoievski, Patrick S�¼skind, Franz Kafka, Dan Brown, Emily Br�¶nte, Henry James, Ernest Hemingway, etc.
But, on the contrary, I would love to be a character of Jane Auten, L.M. Montgomery, Louisa May Alcott, JK Rowling (even if she will evetually kill me >=0! ), Nora Roberts and Christine Feehan (I want a carpathian for meeee
).
And what about you... from which author you would and wouldn't like to be a character?
).
(If you can please respond to this very Fushigi Yuugi poll
I would love to go to all of these countries (I will drool myself in Italy that's for sure <3 lol):
1- Ireland <-- Bishounens <333
2- Italy <-- Bishounens <333
3- Canada.
4- Scotland.
5- Austria <-- more bishounens <3333
6- Sweden <-- more more bishounens lol <33333
7- China.
8- Greece.
9- Japan.
10- France.
Countries with beautiful places to visit, great cultural values, interesting history, languaje and architecture, etc. I just love the idea of going to any of those countries.
I play Runescape too ^^ I'm a 72 level player and I enjoy a lot this game while I'm not near players that use the word "noob" lol I hate that word and I really enjoyed the time when I was a new player and I had to do the quests <3.
Mmm most of the people are afraid of losing someone they loved. I had never lost someone that I love or care about... but it must be terrible and the worse is that nothing and no one can replace a person, it like a lost part of your soul that lives and breathes in memories... it makes sad just to think about it T^T.
OK I don't know if this thread has been done before
but I wanted to show a lot of old music videos 
, and
since most of the users of this place a born after 1990 I know that (because of
their ages) most of them haven't seen some great music videos of the 80's and
even the 70's or the beginning of the 90's 
, so
I wanted to show them (with all of you) some music videos in this
WURLITZER.
You can share any music video that you think it's great and most of all interesting (in any languaje but be careful with the contents and most of all show us your great taste in music and tell us why do you like that music video in particular).
Do you want to try? Then go to these sites and search for your video and put the link in here.
Youtube
Bolt
Gotuit
ETC....
There is a lot of websites that share short videos ^_^ so you just need to find them. In the meantime I will loove to start this Wurlitzer with this song:
Billy Idol - Cradle of love
I just loooooove this song and the girl seducing the nerd
it's
great (the the full view ^^).
Tell what you think and play a new song
!
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Lol no one replied to my lovely wurlitzer
Aha - Take on me
I loove this video =).
Let's see:
* My favorite old movies are:
- Breakfast at Tyffany's.
- My fair lady.
- Love in the Afternoon.
- Gone with the wind.
* My favorite recent movies are:
- Far and away.
- Jerry Maguire.
- Almost Famous.
- When Harry met Sally.
- Pretty woman.
- Amelie.
- Sen to Chihiro.
- Howl's moving castle.
- Whutering heights (the last version).
- Jane Eyre (the last version).
- Cinema Paradiso.
- A league of their own.
- You've got mail.
- Sleepless in Seattle.
- Forrest Gump.
Mmmm I thing that the longest song I had ever heard is X Japan "The Art of Life" (Live), ufff it lasted an eternity
, and
also some songs from Classic music.
Well I love the sound of three languages and those are Gaelic (it's by far my favorite and it's soo sad that theres a lot of irich and scotish people who doesn't know their own celtic language
, I
love everything about this language... how it sounds and how it's writed... it's
unique), Greek and French. I speak spanish, I'm learning chinese and english
right now (how much I would love to speak chinese fluently... maybe someday), I
also think that japanese and korean are quite interesting (I think that all of
them -chinese most of all- have an interesesting history and culture that it's
quite pronunciated in their languages).
Ok I give my congratulations to:
These three people watched the best oriental drama I had ever seen lol and that is "My name is Kim Sam-Soon" this story it's a comedy drama that makes you laught and cry at the same time, you never get bored and I really mean it.
IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBTS...
WATCH THIS
I love short dramas (between 9 and 16 episodes) because if it gets too large I get utterly bored and stopped watching the drama in the end.
I watched all sorts of oriental dramas (taiwanese, japanese and korean) like: Attic cat, I love Patzzi, Full House, Mars, Hana Yori Dango, Goong, etc. And they were all good (I hate boring stories and I watched all of these till the end), but by far "My name is Kim Sam-Soon" is the best (and besides Daniel Henney works in that drama and I looove that guy lol).
Yes T^T they were very sad news and she was so young, talented and pretty (when I was a 14 I wanted to be as pretty and feminine as her in the video "Suddenly" (De repente)). For latin people who liked her music and knew about her fight against breast cancer it was a very sad lost T.T... I HATE CANCER, I really hate that disease, I haven't lost anyone that I love by this disease but I know a lot of people who had suffered the lost of someone that they cared about because they were sick with cancer... so if you know someone with cancer you must be sad too when a famous singer who is known as a speaker of cancer foundations... dies of that disease when she thought that she had overcome her past fight... Soraya didn't win but her stuggle left a mark in people hearts.
Lol this comment remminds me of these scenes of the manga "Get you" (scanlated by ShoujoMagic
LOOOL I never thought that thse could be the worse thing that could ever happen to someone
.
I have some good advices, sleep late one night and then wake up early the next morning (you might fall asleep while standing the rest of the day but it works to get your sleeping hours into a normal schedule... at least it worked for me). Other is to drink a cup of hot milk qith tea and then get into bed at an early hour and read a boring book for an hour (it always works). You can watch a boring movie too (that works for me ^^). Also you can take half of a sleeping pill (or even a complete one) for one night and then your sleeping hours start to fit normally.
Well that's pretty much all I had made to get some sleep in my life ^^ ohhhh AND NEVER TAKE A NAP yeah, if you do that you might never fall asleep at night.
Colombian-American Singer Soraya Dies
MIAMI - Colombian-American singer Soraya, who won a Latin Grammy for best female album in 2004 and worked to educate Hispanic women about breast cancer, died Wednesday after battling the disease. She was 37.
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She died in a Miami hospital, said Lorena Oriani, a spokeswoman for her record label, EMI Latin.
She was born in New Jersey to Colombian parents in 1969 and was found to have breast cancer in 2000.
Her greatest hits were "Solo Por Ti" and "Casi," both released in 2003 on the album "Soraya." She was well known for integrating cumbia and flamenco music with her own style of pop-rock.
Besides her Latin Grammy in 2004, she won a Billboard Latin Music Spirit of Hope award that year. In 2005 she was nominated for a Latin Grammy for female pop vocal album for "El Otro Lado De Mi."
In a letter posted on her Web site Tuesday in Spanish, she wrote to her fans about her battle with cancer. She said she was sure her life was ending.
"I have not lost this battle, because I know the fight was not in vain," she said. "Instead, it will help end a larger battle, which is early detection to prevent this terrible disease."
Soraya's mother, grandmother and an aunt died of breast cancer, which encouraged her to inform Hispanic women about the disease. She joined the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation and traveled all over Latin America to inform women about early breast cancer detection.
Soraya recorded "Por Ser Quien Soy" ("For Being Who I Am"), a song that reflects her experience with the disease.
T^T It's soo sad, I liked this singer so much... I thought that she had already win her battle against cancer but... cancer it's such a terrible disease and a disease that almost all the time kill the people sick with it, it mask himself as a recovery only to take you to death with double force and less time that you could imagine.
Soraya... rest in peace...
Soraya singing "De repente" (the spanish version of "Suddenly", you can hear the english version of this song on my userpage T^T).